TROPF TRIO

Oh how time is flying!

2010-07-10T18:32:00.001-07:00

Landon is now almost 7 months old and we are having a BLAST with him! He is an awesome baby and such a blessing in our lives! He is sitting up strong on his own, loving his baby food, rolling over, trying to scoot up on his knees, loves walking behind his activity walker (with assistance!), and LOVES the pool!!!

We are having a great summer and can't wait to head back to Indiana for

FAMILY CAMP in 2 weeks!!!

LANDON TIMOTHY TROPF

2010-02-11T13:26:00.000-08:00

Okay, so obviously I have been a HUGE slacker on this blog!!! I am so sorry!! The GOOD news is that LANDON TIMOTHY TROPF came 3 weeks early and is perfectly healthy and ADORABLE!! He was born on December 16, 2009 and was 7lbs 3 oz and 20in long. He came VERY VERY fast, which mommy was happy about!

He is the love of our lives!!

In Memory of Grandpa Schrock

2009-09-19T16:38:00.000-07:00

My Grandpa Schrock made it to his HEAVENLY HOME yesterday, September 18th! He had been diagnosed with Dementia, but was doing fairly well. In the last few days, he got pneumonia, had a hard time swallowing, and was spiking a fever. My aunt went up to meet with the doctors and they had already left. While she and Grandma were in the room with Grandpa, his breathing wasn't sounding good and he took his last breath. I know that God spared him from a lot of suffering. I"m so thankful for the Godly legacy he leaves behind. He was truly a man of God who worked so hard his whole life to provide for his family.

I know he's happy, whole, and walking those streets of gold!

Just hanging out with Grandpa!

Am I my mother's daughter or what?!!?? =)

Treasa, Kent, Steve, Mom, Kathy

IN LOVING MEMORY......

2009-09-12T16:07:00.001-07:00

September 4th was the 7 year anniversary of when dad died. I don't even know how to begin describing the last 7 years of my life. There have been many dark and sad days.....yet, God has shown his FAITHFULNESS more than ever. In the last couple of years, I have learned what it TRULY means to forgive.....through a new friendship with Rex Johnson and his family. Mom and I felt God leading us to meet Rex and his family back in the spring of last year (2008). It has truly been a blessing in my spiritual journey as well as this journey of grief!

I came across a lot of these pictures in the past few weeks! I LOVE seeing old pictures of us all together as a family. I continue to be so blessed by my memories of dad and the legacy he has left us with. He is missed and loved beyond words!

Christmas 2001

Mom and Dad.....happy!!!

Dad finally went skiing with us!

An old old picture!

My last birthday with dad

Check out our glasses!

Both Watching over us!

Sarasota, FL the Thanksgiving after dad died.

Working on the family room the weekend before

dad died.

Renee and Lucas' wedding!

A great night with friends!!

2009-09-12T15:57:00.000-07:00

Brit and Nate hosted a wonderful evening of fun at their house! All of our wonderful friends celebrated the fact that we're having a BOY!!! We are SO blessed by our friends!

EmmaClaire and OletaKate LOVE Mr. Jay

Elliana with mommy

Brother Bear----Case

The Cheerleaders

FAMILY CAMP 2009.....My 27th year straight!

2009-09-12T14:55:00.000-07:00

Then.....it was time for me to head to my MOST favorite place on this side of Heaven!!! And can you believe....Jay went with me! We stayed in Uncle Mason and Aunt Donna's cottage with Andrew. God continues to do AMAZING things at Family Camp. It was so good to see old friends, sit around the campfires, and go to every service!!!

After passing MANY cornfields.....

We finally saw the sign......

And then the campers.....

How HILLBILLY can you get?!!

Andrew grilling out of the back of the truck!

Around the fire.....the Landis' and Broyles'!

GOOD TIMES

Family Time with the Tropfs

2009-09-12T14:49:00.000-07:00

When we got to Indiana......we spent several days with Jay's family. It was so much fun getting to see Nate, Carol, Shannon, Lauren, Brian, Sonya, Sally, Grandma Ruth, and Aunt Dot. We missed having Mukul there.

She LOVES her Uncle Jay Jay

Our little Amish niece!!

Sonya laughing at a book with Uncle Jay Jay

Enjoying the Campfire and Smores!

IT'S A BOY!!!!!! LANDON TIMOTHY TROPF

2009-09-12T14:39:00.001-07:00

Right before we came home for Family Camp (July 21st) we went to Baby's First Images to get a 3-D ultrasound.....and more importantly.....to find out if this bambino is a boy or a girl! The ultrasound technician didn't have the device on my stomach for even 10 seconds before she could tell.....IT'S A BOY!!!! We were/are SOOOO excited!

** LANDON TIMOTHY TROPF **

HOW SWEET IS HIS PROFILE!

ITS A BOY!

Jay's 26th Birthday and 4th of July Celebration!!!

2009-09-12T14:28:00.000-07:00

Jay had to work on his birthday this year......so, a few of us Firemen wives headed to the station to watch fireworks and enjoy oreo dessert for Jay's birthday! We had a GREAT time!

"With Child"

Sitting in front of the firehouse trying to see fireworks!

Then they got a call! Jay and Billy getting their gear on!

Elliana was excited that daddy came back!

Hadley's 3rd Birthday

2009-09-12T14:22:00.001-07:00

In July, Jay and I headed over to Aiken, SC for Hadley's 3rd Birthday Party. I can't believe she is growing up so fast. As most of you know, I was her nanny from when she was born until she was 10 months old. She and Carter are SO precious and VERY dear to my heart.

I AM PREGNANT!!!!

2009-06-07T11:35:00.000-07:00

So sorry I have taken so long to post my news on my blog! I need to do much better these days! Well, Jay and I went home last weekend for my Great-Grandma Hoover's 100th Birthday Party! While we were home, we told our families and friends that WE'RE PREGNANT!!!! We had only been trying for about a month.......so things happened quicker than we thought......which is fine! We went to the doctor just over a week ago and had an ultrasound. The heartbeat was normal and everything looked good. I am now 9 weeks along and due January 8th!

I have had some nausea but haven't actually "gotten sick". (That was the nice way of saying it!) I am on nausea medicine right now but still have days (like today) that I feel AWFUL. I haven't really had any cravings.......but try to find things that even sound good. Right now......Orange and Raspberry sherbert tastes WONDERFUL!!!

Our families are SO excited! This will be the first grandbaby on my side and the second grandbaby on Jay's side! We look forward to seeing many of you at Family Camp the last week of July! Yes.....you will all be able to see my baby bump!!!

ANOTHER TROPF COMING SOON-----January 2010

Andrew's Graduation from PBA

2009-05-16T11:30:00.000-07:00

Mom, Matt, and I flew down to West Palm Beach for Andrew's graduation last weekend!!! Uncle Mason and Aunt Donna drove Grandma Landis down as well. We had a GREAT time together with family and friends!!! I am SOOOOO proud of Andrew and can't believe he is already done. Dad would be so proud!

"Just the Four of Us"

Brunch before Matt flew out

Andrew took me on a lot of rides!

Free Entertainment: Matt trying to Unicycle

Us kids with Uncle Mason and Aunt Donna

Us kids with Grams

Yes.....he is just like GRANDPA!!!

Matt in charge of the grill

Jordan, Andrew, Darin

Yes, she is PROUD!

Andrew and Grams

Waiting for Graduation to start

Me and Bubby

BroMance!

"Just the 3 of us"

Matt, Me, Adam

The group at dinner

Andrew and Al

My "brothers"

Part of the gang

VACATION TO WEST PALM BEACH, FL

2009-03-20T19:43:00.000-07:00

FLORIDA VACATION---WEST PALM BEACH, FL AND SARASOTA, FL

My FAVORITE restaurant in Sarasota, FL

Jay and Justin

The Knierims

Gavin and Aunt Tammy

Adam, Me, Browner

Mom and I at Kilwins (Another FAV)

My Birthday Dinner at Yard House

Bubby and I

Lauren and I

Me, Jordan, Lauren, Andrew

The Girls---Lauren Sandwich!

Our handicap Bike Taxi

Jay and I on the bike taxi---so fun!

Darin and Andrew with us

The Group at Bar Louie for $2.00 Burgers

Marty, Andrew, Me, Lauren

Jay and I at Kilwins---LOVE IT!

Cheeburger Cheeburger

The group at the Intramural Soccer game

Johnny Singer, Jordan Preusz, and Andrew played

Lakeview alumni at PBA!!

The AMAZING pool

Jay and I

Andrew, Jared, Marty, Darin

Sushi night with the GRANT COUNTY group!

Jay, Andrew, Adam, and Raley unloading the Dinghy

Bubby and I AGAIN!

Part of the group on Peanut Island

Zach, Megan, Lauren, Jordan, Darin

Going REDNECK style!

Andrew with his Saturn and Dinghy

Peanut Island

Boys and their toys----Jay, Darin, Adam

The world of WORK!

2009-01-28T19:04:00.001-08:00

Okay so obviously you all see what work has done to me......kept me BUSY!!! Not even enough time to blog, which makes me sad! Just wanted to let you all know that things are well here! I am absolutely LOVING my job.......way more than I ever thought I would! I'm so blessed. Jay continues to love being a fireman and is now golfing a LOT on his off days!

Hope you all are well! Will try to post recent pictures soon!

LOVE YOU ALL!

THIS SUNDAY!

2009-01-02T22:46:00.000-08:00

Hey everyone........just a quick reminder that my mom and Rex Johnson (the guy responsible for dad's accident) will be speaking at Brookhaven Wesleyan Church this Sunday, January 4th, at 10:15 am. They will also be sharing in an evening service at New Hope Baptist Church in Gas City! Please keep Mom, Rex, and our families in your prayers! I'm so upset that I can't be there.....trusting God as he comforts me from afar! Love you all!

~Merry Christmas to All~

2008-12-24T16:45:00.000-08:00

Jay has to work, but I am heading back to Indiana tomorrow, the 25th. I am so excited and READY to spend some time with my family, although Jay will be missed a LOT! Once again, after 6 years, it is still so hard to celebrate these holidays without dad. Now that us kids are grown up, Matt and I are married, and Andrew is about to graduate from college........there is so much that dad has missed! It would be so much fun to be "friends" with dad, as we are with mom!

I know he is celebrating in Heaven and not missing a moment down here!

I'm so thankful that we have hope in eternity!

Merry Christmas to each of you! May you have a Happy Holiday and Happy New Year!

The rest of my trip home......

2008-12-16T15:44:00.000-08:00

Sorry I haven't finished blogging about our trip home!

Sunday morning we went to church with Jay's family at New Hope Baptist in Gas City. It was great to all be in church together.......and the sermon was WONDERFUL. Pastor Mick spoke on Bitterness. It brought back so many memories from right after dad died. I clearly remember making a decision that I would NOT be a bitter person because of losing my dad. Although I have, and still do, get angry at times.....I will not harbor bitterness. Well, Jay's family watched the video from when my mom and Rex (the guy that hit dad) spoke at Rex's church a couple of months ago......on Saturday night. I didn't know he did this.......but, after the sermon, Jay's dad told Pastor Mick about the video and how much it tied in to not being bitter, etc. Well, as we were heading out to the car to leave.......Pastor Mick called me back in to the church and asked if I would bring the video to their evening service and give a little testimony about it! I was in shock.....but of course have never been shy to be in front of people! So, I did it!

It went really well and mom came with me. I think the video was very powerful and showed a perfect example of 2 people who have not become bitter from a horrible tragedy! So, I just praise God for his continued Faithfulness in using dad's death to bring Glory to Himself!!

Sunday afternoon.......Jay's friends from college, Chase and Trevor, came to visit us! Also, my great friend Amanda Strasser came over! We all went over to Ivanhoes to get some ice cream!

Sunday night after church, Jay went to see his friends from high school while mom and I went and hung out with Grandma Landis and Great-Grandma Hoover for a while!

We then headed home on Monday!! It was so great to be home......especially with Jay with me! I'll be back home next week......the 25th-31st! Hope to see many of you then!

Home in Indiana........

2008-12-11T17:06:00.000-08:00

Jay and I headed back home to Indiana this past Wednesday, as this was his only time he could get off work in December. We drove up Wednesday and stopped in Indy at Jay's sister's house for dinner. We got to spend some time with our niece, Sonya and gave her her Christmas presents! She LOVED her Elmo Cell Phone from Uncle Jay-Jay!

On Thursday, we slept in and then met my cousin Janna at MiPueblo for lunch! YUMMY! Yes, even a couple of the employees still remember me! I used to go there WAY too much! Jay and I then headed to the mall to basically do nothing! The only entertainment we found was watching pennies spin!

We then headed to Grandma Landis' house to spend some time with Great Grandma and to help Grandma get my mom's Birthday dinner ready. It was so yummy! After dinner we played Mexican Train and then they surprised Jay and I with an Oreo Ice Cream Cake for our Anniversary.

When we left Grandma's we headed to Tim and Brandy Horn's house! Brandy is my best friend from high school. We always have SO much fun together and catch up like a day has never gone by......isn't that what BEST FRIENDS do? Jay and I LOVED spending time with their daughter Jada. She enjoyed showing us how she does "Head and Shoulders, Knees and Toes......", her stretches, and all her toys!

On Friday, we met Jay's best friend, Justin and his wife Linde at Ivanhoes for lunch. We then headed to my mom's house to spend a couple of hours hanging out and catching up! Justin and Linde are due with their first child in January! We are so excited for them! We then went to Jay's grandma's house and got TOPPIT pizza for dinner. We had a great day with Justin and Linde!

Jay's parents are remodeling their house and thought it would be done for this weekend when we were home; however, it was not quite finished. So, we hosted Jay's family Christmas at my mom' house! There were 22 of us........we had a HUGE lunch....played games......the adults played the piano and had their annual sing-a-long......ate dessert......and let Sonya entertain us! Jay and I loved having Lauren, Brian, and Sonya stay with us on Friday and Saturday nights.......and also had Shannon with us Saturday night! Us girls stayed up until 1:30 am just talking and catching up on life and family! Jay's family decided not to exchange gifts this year......instead we all made fleece blankets to donate to the Children's Advocacy Center in Marion! Here is a picture of Jay and I and the blanket we made!

GOD IS SO FAITHFUL!!!!

2008-12-11T16:58:00.000-08:00

My oh my is it time for an update or what?!!!!

As you all know from the previous post, I got laid off from my job in hospice. Well, after a few short weeks, I am now employed! I am working for a Home Health Company called Guardian. They are a GROWING company who hasn't had a social worker for quite some time, so they are so excited to have me! I am technically PRN, but am covering two different offices......which care for over 200 patients......so, that will be FULL TIME for me!!! PRN works for me because then I can take any time off that I want.......yet I will have as much work as I want! Although home health isn't my DREAM job, I am excited to help these people with the resources they need and typically can't get themselves or aren't educated about! I am also making a SIGNIFICANTLY higher amount of money than I was at my previous job, which is a huge blessing!

So, all of this to say......thank you all for your prayers!

Once again, I'm so thankful I serve a FAITHFUL God!!!

(By the way, the hospice company is continuing to struggle to the keep the In-Patient unit open....so, I'm thankful I got out when I did and now have a better job!!)

God continues to teach me......

2008-11-05T16:01:00.000-08:00

As many of you know after we moved to Dacula, I looked for a job for 4 months! I finally humbled myself to apply for the county child welfare system.....as much as I DIDN'T want to! I went for the interview and they hired me on the spot; however, they didn't need me to start for another 3 weeks. YEAH.....I had 3 weeks to find a different job! I went home for Family Camp and two days after I got back, a position in hospice opened up! I was so excited because I would not only be doing what I LOVED, but also be making a LOT more money than I would have for the county! So.....I was excited!

Needless to say, I have enjoyed my work the past 60 days, although my bosses weren't always the easiest to work for! However, last week my boss took me in his office and said they would need to switch me from FULL time to PRN (as needed). He stated that the census had dropped in the homecare side and a little in the unit and therefore they couldn't pay 2 full-time home care social workers and an in-patient unit social worker. Since I was the lowest on the totem pole...I was the first to go! Apparently the company has laid off over 200 people.

So......all of this to say.....God is teaching me something! I'm not even exactly sure what it is......because I don't know why I only had a job for 60 days! However, I'm so thankful that I KNOW that I KNOW that I KNOW.......I serve a FAITHFUL GOD who will open new doors for me......A GOD who has a plan for me and sees the bigger picture of my life when I can't!

So, please remember me in your prayers as I'm, once again, looking for a new job! I have a couple of leads......but nothing serious yet! I pray that I will be open to what God wants for me! I'm so humbled!

GOOOO BUCKEYES!!!!!

2008-11-04T17:30:00.000-08:00

So sorry I am WAY past due for a new post!

A couple of weekends ago, Jay and I headed up to Columbus, Ohio for the OHIO STATE vs PENN STATE football game! Yes, Jay acted like a 2 year old eating a bowl of candy.......he was SO excited!! So, we left Thursday night and stayed with my cousins, Natachia and Jon, in Cleveland, TN. Friday morning we got up and headed north! We stopped at an Outlet Mall and walked around for a bit and then ate at Bob Evans.....it was the only non-fastfood around there. We forgot how much we LOVE Bob Evans!!! We then stayed in a hotel Friday night.

Got up Saturday morning and headed to OHIO STATE!!!! Yes......the big day had finally come!!! ESPN Game Day was there, so we were able to stand in the crowd and watch it on a huge screen!

After hanging out there for a while, we walked around and bought me a Buckeye necklace.....and just soaked up every Ohio State thing you could think of!

Script O-H-I-O Brutus!

Archie Griffin Heisman Trophy

Ate lunch at Johnny's Pizza.....pretty greasy, but okay! Went to the Ohio State's Men's Basketball open practice! Then off to the Skull Session! How fun! This was my first experience.........the Ohio State Band's name is "The Best Damn Band in the Land"........they played a bunch of songs........the football team came in......Coach Tressel and the Captains of the team said a few words! Got to see my James Laurinaitis!!!

Team ready to charge the field "O" ---The Band

Then, it was time for the BIG GAME!!! Unfortunately, the Buckeyes lost........but we had such a GREAT time! After the game, we stayed at my long lost friend's (Amber Deveau) apartment! She wasn't there......but once we got there we jumped in bed. It was so late and we were exhausted!

Sunday morning, we headed up to Findlay, Ohio to see Jay's Uncle Tom and Aunt Suzie and cousins! We had so much fun just hanging out with them all day. Got up Monday morning and drove all the way back home!

What a fun time to get away with my husband!!

Burdened For A Few......

2008-10-14T18:57:00.000-07:00

We sang a song in church on Sunday called "The More I Seek You" by Kari Jobe. (Please feel free to check it out on You Tube....I'm trying to figure out how to put it on here.) The past two days I have been playing it non-stop on the computer and singing it (in my head!). God has truly been speaking to me through this song. It seems that there is so much going on and so much on my heart....that I'm thankful I serve a FAITHFUL GOD.

Here are the words: (repeated)

The more I seek You

The more I find You

The more I love You

I want to sit at Your feet

Drink from the Cup in your Hand

Lay back against you and Breathe

Feel your heartbeat

This love is so deep

It's more than I can stand

I melt in your peace

It's overwhelming

Most of you remember that I used to be a nanny when we lived over in Augusta. I watched Carter (now 7 years old) and Hadley (now 2 years old). I became such a close part of their family because I was with the kids EVERYDAY and I started watching Hadley when she was just about 4 weeks old. They come from a wonderful, loving, and Christian family. Well......long story short......in May....their mom, Darby, was caught stealing money from her boss. She stole almost $300,00. Absolutely NO body knew about it....not even her husband. The first time I found out, it was on the news in Augusta. I was absolutely in shock....and still am! The first time I talked to Darby was the next day and she said, "Tammy, I have a problem and I need help".

Needless to say.....the past five months have passed and the Copelands have been trying to save up as much money as possible to offer to her boss in order to keep from serving time in jail. With what she is being charged with, she could face up to 40 years in jail. It has now come time to go to court. They go tomorrow (Wednesday) and she is hoping to get 90 days in jail and probation. If she goes for 90 days, she will be able to stay in Aiken, where they live. If she gets longer, she will have to serve in Columbia, SC.

They have already told Carter what is going on as he is the SMARTEST 7 year old I know! She said he didn't have many questions, but I'm sure he will as time goes on. They assured him of what will be the same and what he can kinda expect.

I can't even begin to tell you how SAD I am about this whole situation. SAD for Carter, SAD for Hadley, SAD for Chris (her husband), and even SAD for Darby. I realize that someone who commits this kind of a crime, deserves jail time......but, it's so weird when it's someone you're close to.

I have so much more on my mind, but know this is getting long! Please feel free to e-mail me or leave a comment if you have more questions that I didn't answer! PLEASE say a prayer or two or three in the next couple of days. Please remember Darby as she is sitting in jail missing her husband and kids......Pray that she will continue to allow God to work in her heart.....Pray that she will be safe......Pray that she will feel the comfort, love, and peace that can ONLY come from our FAITHFUL GOD!

Thank you all for your prayers.

Graduation Night.......

2008-09-21T14:13:00.001-07:00

Thursday evening was Jay's Graduation from the Gwinnett County Fire Academy. His parents, grandparents, sister, niece, my mom, friends Billy and Ann Clark, and Ann's parents.....Mr. and Mrs. Essenburg went to the graduation to celebrate with Jay. It was such a neat ceremony with emphasis on being a part of the "Family". I had the HONOR of "pinning" Jay's badge! Thanks to Billy for helping Jay get to this point in his career.

We are so excited to begin this new journey.

Uncle Jay and Sonya Jay and good friend Matt

Jay and Billy (Honor Guard) Jay with Chief Rolader

Jay's class with the 4 Instructors

Jay with the Instructors Honor Guard

Mom, Jay, and I Jay with his parents

Family Night at the Fire Academy.....

2008-09-21T13:36:00.000-07:00

This past Tuesday evening was "Family Night" at the Gwinnett County Fire Academy!

Family Night is an opportunity for the 19 recruits to bring their family to the academy for a carry-in dinner and show us what they've done for the past 27 weeks. I had a great time meeting the other 18 recruits that Jay has talked about for the past few months, as well as his instructors. Everyone was very nice and the chief welcomed us all to "the family"!

A few firemen showing us a drill! Jay and a couple friends!

The 100 foot ladder that they have to climb, hook in, lay straight back, and clap 3 times!

The "Tower" The "Burn Building"

My Fireman!

A New Look......

2008-09-19T11:25:00.001-07:00

Yes.......I know.......I know.......I have had the SAME hair cut since like 5th grade!

So, last week I decided to make a change! Jay and I headed to Augusta for the weekend, where my great friend Rebecca is a hair dresser! Friday night at dinner all of my wonderful friends and husband basically told me that I wouldn't do it! I see why they would say this because I tend to hate change.....however, it was time! So, the more they challenged me, the more I made up my mind to really do it! So, Saturday afternoon I put my big girl panties on and sat in the chair and kept my mouth shut!

She chopped away......and this was the end product! I am very happy with it and have gotten a lot of compliments! Jay's biggest concern was that I wouldn't be able to get it in a pony-tail because he knows I "live" in a ponytail! But, I manage to use a ponytail holder and many other gadgets to get it up! Hope you all enjoy it!

I will update soon on Jay's graduation from Fire Academy and our wonderful time with family!

This last picture is of the little girl I used to nanny for when she was a newborn! She is now a beautiful and active little 2 year old! Jay and I went and saw Hadley and her brother, Carter, last weekend and had a great time!

Celebrating with Chrissy.......

2008-09-09T18:37:00.000-07:00

As most of you have heard, Chrissy won her long and courageous battle.......God took her home at 1:15 this morning. She is happy, whole, and healthy again! May the Briles' family know that they are continuously thought about and prayed for!

PRAY FOR CHRISSY.....

2008-09-07T13:30:00.000-07:00

Please say an extra prayer for Chrissy Briles and her family. You can see the latest update on her Caring Bridge site at www.caringbridge.com and then enter chrissybriles. The doctors have given her just days left and the family is planning to take her home. May God give them extra comfort and peace in these days.

Just a few thoughts.......

2008-09-03T15:57:00.000-07:00

Hey everyone! Just wanted to update you on my week. So, I'm getting used to my computer and enjoying it! I got to talk to Kelly Troyer Bohm through AIM and we were on video with eachother so I got to see her precious baby London! If any of you have AIM and aren't on my list, let me know!

Well, again we are just one day away from the 6 year anniversary of when dad died. I was listening to a Grief CD on the way to work, which is something mom and I have listened to a LOT the past 6 years! One of the things that was said on the CD is that

"Grief is not a problem to be cured......Yet, it is a statement that you love somebody."

I thought more and more about that as I had an hour drive to work. That is why it hurts so bad......because I love my dad so much and because he loved me so much! I'm so thankful and blessed.

September 1st was Dan Metz's birthday......and as many of you know, Dan was my dad's best friend and they always celebrated "the birthdays" together! I called him Monday night to wish him a Happy Birthday and let him know that I wish dad was here to "GET OLD" with him! But instead, he's getting old alone.....and dad is just watching and laughing!

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers this week! Please feel free to share your favorite memory of dad or mom and dad together! I'd love to hear them! I'll write more tomorrow!

Life couldn't be better with a new MAC BOOK!!!!

2008-08-30T17:28:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone~ I am still alive! I survived a whole week without having my own computer at home! So, Jay and I headed to the Mall of Georgia and ended up in the Apple store and came home with a MacBook! It's a beautiful thing.....that I'm still trying to figure out!

So, starting tomorrow.......I'll be back to my "memories of dad" posts. We are coming up on the 6th year anniversary next Thursday!

Also......I have just started to read The Shack! Have any of you read it? Would love to hear your comments about it!

Have a great Labor Day weekend!

THE COMPUTER HAS CRASHED!

2008-08-26T17:08:00.000-07:00

I am sooooo sorry that I haven't been back on here to blog! I am going through BLOG withdraw.....is that real? I bet it is to Keetha......right, Keetha?!!!! =) Well, my computer has decided to crash and according to a few crazy people that know something about computers......my computer is getting old! OLLDDD? Are you kidding me? It's only 5 years old at the most! Last I checked, 5 isn't old! So, anyways.....Jay and I are heading this week to go buy a new computer! I am still praying I will be able to get all of my wonderful pictures and documents off my old computer! I'll be back in Blog world soon!

You know you're back in hospice when.......

2008-08-21T16:51:00.000-07:00

Okay.....so I actually started my new job today. I am working for Heartland Hospice in an in-patient unit. This unit is a bit smaller than the one I worked for in Augusta, but it has 10 beds. Today when I arrived, I was greeted by another social worker who does home visits. She took me to the unit.......showed me my office that was once a linen closet, introduced me to the nurses and my boss, and let me go! As Uncle Dave would say, "That office is so small, I can't even change my mind in there"! I should have taken a picture.....maybe tomorrow!

Ever since I started working in hospice a year ago, I have absolutely loved it! Most people ask me "how can you do that" or "isn't it so depressing". I can't tell you how much I truly enjoy it and KNOW that hospice is where God uses me the most.

I first went in to room 10 where there laid a 4 year old precious little girl with a trach and other tubes (remember, I'm a social worker, not a nurse!). The first thing the other social worker said was, "A lot of doctors and people think she's braindead, but I don't". As the social worker rubbed her head and talked to her, the little girl slightly moved her eyelid and head.

Later this afternoon, I walked in to room 8 where I met a woman who was watching her mother die. She expressed that she has faith that she will be able to take her mother out of the unit and she'll get better. There was a Bible on the bed-side table and the daughter kept talking about her mom knowing God. I then informed her that her mother is in a win-win situation. If she gets better, great.......if not....she'll be in the arms of God! What a beautiful thing!

I then went to room 9 where a wife of 48 years is watching her husband decline by the hour. After being diagnosed just 5 short weeks ago, she said that today is the first day he hasn't talked to her. Her husband has always done everything for her. She has never pumped a tank of gas, never paid a bill, and hasn't driven a car since 1966. She was very tearful as she talked of the wonderful Godly man her husband has been and the two wonderful sons they have raised. We shed tears together and ended it with a hug.

How can you read this and not want my job?!!! I love it! These are just perfect opportunities to share the wonderful love and faithfulness of our God.

A Maple Nut Goodie Memory......

2008-08-20T08:15:00.000-07:00

I went to Wal-Mart yesterday and happened to go down the candy aisle......where I found......THESE.......Yes......MAPLE NUT GOODIES!

Talk about a childhood memory........For those of you who are from Marion, you remember the BIG R over by the college! My dad often went to BIG R and I typically didn't want to go.....unless he was going to buy Maple Nut Goodies! My dad LOVED these little candies and us kids grew to love them as well. EVERY time we went to BIG R we BEGGED dad to buy them........it didn't usually take much begging.......because those of you who KNEW my dad knew that he was a sucker for stopping at places to buy JUNK! Just like everyday on his way to work......he'd stop at a gas station and get a Mt. Dew and JUNK.....whether it be donuts, gems, cinnamon rolls, or any other Little Debbie snack you can think of!

So, as I saw these Maple Nut Goodies yesterday........I HAD to buy them! Each time I eat one.....I remember the hundreds of times dad bought them for us! What a great memory.

Thanks, DAD!

A few thoughts about my DAD.......

2008-08-18T18:44:00.000-07:00

Update........so, I called my so-called new job this morning to find out if I should start tomorrow or what! She said she still doesn't have my background check back......not sure why its taking so long, but that I need to start Thursday! Hopefully this will really happen.....but, it's the plan!

I wish I would have taken pictures........on Saturday night Jay and I went to our church to see a Christian Comedian Couple! Jay invited one of his close friends from Fire Academy, Matt, (and he brought his sister, Allison) and then we also met up with Billy & Ann and some of their friends. We had such a great time and laughed a lot!

After the comedian, Jay and I and Matt and Allison headed to Applebees so they could eat dinner and we could eat dessert! After many laughs and stories......we started talking about our dads. Matt and Allison's dad was killed in a car accident this past November......what an opportunity for each of us to share our stories. We asked eachother everything from how did the accident happen, how did you find out, how have you dealt with it, how others have reacted to you, and how things have changed in our lives! It is always such a blessing when I get the opportunity to not only share how God has worked in my life, but to know that others have experienced my pain as well. This was good for Matt and Allison too especially since it hasn't been very long for them. People still aren't sure how to respond to them or what to say. I know that when you lose a parent, each person's situation is different......However, the PAIN is still the same.

I have a feeling I'll be sharing more about my dad in the next few weeks......as it nears the SIX YEAR anniversary. I know.....I can't believe it either! I miss my dad each and every day. I think about his accident all the time, I think about what I wish I could call and tell him, I think about how lonely my mom gets, I think about how different things would be if he was here, I think about how much he would have loved being at my wedding and Matt's, I think about how proud he would be of Andrew......almost done with college, I think about how proud he would be of my mom from building the new house to her work in missions, and I also think of how thankful I am that he is in the presence of God and enjoying Heaven! How could I not think of such a BEAUTIFUL thing?!!!

I love you and miss you, DAD!

Off to work.......NEXT WEEK!

2008-08-13T19:29:00.000-07:00

Hey everyone! So, I was supposed to start work tomorrow (Thursday). The secretary called me today and said they still don't have my background check back, etc......and so it will have to be next week. She was wondering why it was taking the background check people so long to get back with her. Well, apparently I filled out the whole release form, but did not sign it! DUMBO! So, she faxed it to me today, I got it signed, and faxed back! So......hopefully I'll go to work starting Monday or Tuesday.....or whenever I get a call! Jay is convinced I'm already calling in sick! HAHA

So, today I went and met him for lunch.......since we thought it was going to be my last "free" day! It was nice to see him in the middle of the day! We ate lunch at Moe's and then I took him back to the Academy.

My mom got home safely from the Ukraine today! Good to know she's back in the states!

Andrew stopped by this past Sunday and stayed the night.......while on his way back down to West Palm Beach, FL for his SENIOR year of college......yes, did you all get that?!!

**SENIOR YEAR**

Unbelievable!! Time goes soooooo fast. Many of you may have remembered that he was only 15 when dad died........and now finishing college.....wow! I'll save all of that for another day!

Exciting Things........

2008-08-10T18:28:00.001-07:00

NO.....NO......NO......

I'm NOT pregnant!

However, I did get a JOB! As most of you know I finished my Masters in Social Work at the beginning of May and have been looking for a job since! In the meantime.....while looking for a job, I have also been holding the neighborhood pool down.....and trying to fit the gym in there somewhere!

Jay found a job online with the Division of Family and Children here in Gwinnett County. What he doesn't understand is that I'd rather swollow glass everyday than work there! It's a horrible and hard job with.......can I just say "third world country" PAY!!! Well, I humbled myself and went for an interview. God has such a funny sense of humor because they hired me ON THE SPOT at my interview! (This was back before I came home for camp.) Well, I accepted the job......knowing I had a month to find something BETTER!

Well.......I did! The week I got back from camp, I was looking online at Heartland Hospice's website........this is the company I worked for in Augusta! They had a position open in Riverdale, GA.......which is down by the Atlanta airport and about an hour from my house. So, I went for an interview......then had a second phone interview......then, just got offered the job on Friday! WOO HOO!!!! I can't tell you how excited I am.......and how excited I was to call the county and let them know I took another job!

So, all of this to say that I'll be starting my new job tomorrow! I'll be the social worker in a 10-bed In-patient unit......doing the same thing I did in Augusta! God is soooooo amazing and soooooo FAITHFUL! I'm so very thankful to my husband for his patience and to all of you who have been praying for me and encouraging me!

I AM BLESSED!

2008-08-06T16:50:00.000-07:00

I hope you all are able to see my new posts. I'm getting comments on them, but every time I open my blog.....they don't show up! Hmmmmm.....

I wanted to post the links to Natachia's bridal portraits and wedding pictures. Please feel free to look through them and leave me comments that I will pass on to Teresa and Natachia! They are GORGEOUS!

http://www.wessonphoto.com/tachia/

http://www.wessonphoto.com/souders/

HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNT "T".....

2008-08-06T10:54:00.000-07:00

From the wedding......but we LOVE our AUNT T!

For those of you who don't know.........my cousin, Natachia, and I are VERY good at making suprises (and keeping it a secret) for our moms!!! Since we both live far, we enjoy showing up for Birthdays or any occassion we can find an excuse (besides funerals). So, the weekend Natachia got back from her honeymoon, she told me that she and Jon wanted to come home and suprise Aunt T for her Birthday! I instantly was SOOOO excited, because I was going to be home for camp at the same time! WOO HOO!!! So, Natachia and I began planning! We wanted it to be a suprise for Grandma and Great-Grandma also....but there was no way I could pull off a full meal and a cake without Grandma knowing!

Natachia and Jon began heading to Fairmount on Friday night. Teresa came for service that night.....but if you know her......she likes to be in bed BY 9:00 PM!!!! So, I let Dave know what was going on and Natachia just planned on showing up at their house since it would be around 10pm or so. Well, I was sitting around a campfire at 9:30 and Natachia sent me a text asking if her mom was still at the campgrounds. I ran over to the cottage and Teresa's car was still there. She was down hanging out with her long-time friend Delene! Grandma and Great-Grandma were still up.....Natachia was only about 20 miles away.......I was EXCITED!

I decided to stay in the cottage to try to keep Teresa there until Tachia could get there. Teresa came strolling in.......Grandma and I did our best to keep blabbing to keep Teresa there!!! We did good. I was sitting RIGHT next to Teresa on the couch.....got a text from Tachia....she was at VP down the road. I told Teresa I would be right back, but don't leave! I ran to the entrance....got Tachia and Jon! And then when I walked in the back door.....they walked in the front door.....I took pics on Tachia's camera....which I don't have yet....but will post when I get them! Teresa screamed and was shocked and it was just awesome! My mom came over from a campfire so she was there......and great-grandma got to see it all! What a FUN night!

Saturday night, we did a full dinner and cake before service.....with about 10-12 family members! Such an exciting time and a party for someone who MORE THAN....DESERVES IT!!!

We love you so much, Aunt T

Before My Aunt Kills Me..........

2008-08-06T10:04:00.000-07:00

I apologize to all of you who have been DYING to hear about the rest of camp. I have to be in a certain "mood" to post......and apparently I haven't been in it! But, before my Aunt Teresa blows up my phone and comes to Georgia to kill me......I thought I'd better catch up!

While I was home for camp......I had the opportunity to catch up with friends, also! I met Kim (friend/old co-worker) and Mickie (foster parent I used to work with) at Cracker Barrell. We had a great time catching up on the kids, my life, and the ENTIRE county of Grant! Always fun to see them again!

On Monday, a bunch of us headed over to Ivanhoes because it was a rainy day. Andrew and Jordan Preusz met us there since they had a break from mowing!

I also got to see my old friend, Marla Maddox! She came down a couple of nights for service and pretty much spent most of her time laughing with my mom! They are an interesting pair! Always good to see Mar-Mar!

I also got to see JANET MADDOX! It's been FOREVER! We have been keeping up through Facebook recently......but it was good to finally see her and catch up in person! She sang with her parents on Saturday night. Good to see you, Janet!

I also had the chance to stop by my BEST friend, Brandy (Thornburgh) Horn's house and hang out with her, Jada Lynn, and Timmy.....for about 10 minutes! I even got to see Rich and Jara and the HARLEY! I know Brandy and I could sit and talk for HOURS.....unfortunately I didn't have hours! Jada is getting sooo big and looking more and more like Brandy! She is so precious.....wish I could see her MUCH more often!

No, her mouth is NOT in my mouth....although it looks like it!

We spent Tuesday and Friday afternoons at Splash House in Marion! I even got to see long-lost friend, John Weller! On Tuesday, my wonderful friends, Amanda and Allison Strasser met Janna, Jessa, and I at Splash House! Always fun with those girls!

We then spent Thursday afternoon at Kokomo Beach! I soooo wish I would have gotten a picture of Maddix Metz and I in the lazy river with Renee and Morgan. The little girls were soooo cute and kept trying to hold hands to keep our tubes together!

Me, Janna, Paula at Splash House

Wish I would have taken more pictures.......had fun hanging out with Julia Leslie, Andrew, the Metz's, Reids, Wolfe's, and (Craig) Janofski's at Kokomo Beach........also with the Tippeys, White's, Christensons, Reids, and Kerns at Splash House!

My evenings were spent going to service, talking to Jay on the phone before he headed to bed, and then running around the camp to see as many people as I could......and tried to make it to everyone's camp fires! I didn't do a great job of that because I spent little time at Cain's/Vardaman's.......However, when I was there.......I laughed SOOO hard that my cheeks hurt!

This reminds me that I also got to see Stephanie Sigworth (forget her new last name!)! It is always so good to see eachother and catch up. Like we have always said, we are kindred spirits.....who have a special understanding of each other and what we've gone through. You can't help but point out that Gene and Dad are VERY missed during Family Camp. (Many others too.) But, Gene and Dad stick out the most to me. The many years around Deb and Gene's campfire, many laughs, and watching Gene "count the people" every night!

So, if you don't know.........Amanda Strasser (and Janna) are my "Pudgy-Pie Partners" in crime! Janna and I stopped at Wal-Mart to fill up on the makings for pudgy pies and stored it in Reid's cabin! The BEST pudgy pie consists of Peanut Butter, Hershey's Chocolate, and Marshmallows! Paul Wolfe was wonderful enough to keep a GOOD eye on my pudgy pie so it wouldn't burn! Thanks, Dr. Wolfe.....I mean, Paul!

FAMILY CAMP 1

2008-07-31T18:26:00.000-07:00

So, I drove 2 hours to my cousin (Natachia's) on Saturday night, then made the rest of the trip in 7 hours on Sunday! My mom, Grandma Landis, and Andrew worked their tails off to get everything set up and in place before Sunday! (And mom went to Paraguay!)

Great-Grandma has this special "lift" chair that she spends a lot of time in each day......so, Andrew picked it up, loaded it in the truck, and brought it to the cottage for the week! She kept saying how she is so spoiled and we all take care of her!!! I'm pretty sure you can be that way when you're 99!! She is so appreciative though and we LOVE to do it!

She fit perfect in the "corner"!! Great-Grandma with a few of her GREAT-Grandkids!

Andrew, Janna, Me

I can't express how much of a blessing it is to still have Great-Grandma with us! Each morning I would wake up to Grandma fixing coffee and getting breakfast ready for her and Great-Grandma. While I got ready, Great-Grandma shared a verse in Proverbs that stuck out to her each morning! Her presence is peaceful and it is obvious by the look on her face that she is having a great time! She enjoys watching us grandkids run in and out all day and always asks what we're doing next! She couldn't get enough of her crossword puzzles and Sudoku!

(Can you believe at 99 she is AMAZING at Sudoku?!!)

Great-Grandma often reminds me that I am like her in the way that I like to get around the campground to talk to EVERYONE.....or even before service! She often commented on how she misses being able to get up and walk around Bethel to see everyone! Most people don't mind coming to her in the pew (since she's usually in the SAME place!) but she's always afraid she's missing someone! If any of you know me.....and know how I am at camp....THAT IS IT!

We decided to do a "Family Dinner" in the new cottage on Sunday because my dad's cousins, Dan and Reenie Bickel, were in town for the evening. So, we had 13 Landis/Hoovers in the cottage for dinner! Sooo much fun!

******STAY TUNED******

I AM TOO TIRED! MORE TOMORROW!

(If you want to see more camp pictures, go to http://www.indiananorth.com/ and on the left side click on Photo Gallery! Kelly---you just might find that JBC is a little different than when we went! HAHA)

THE NEW COTTAGE!!!! HOOVER---W18

2008-07-31T17:57:00.000-07:00

Okay, Okay........thank you for being so patient.......and to those of you who aren't so patient!Wow, what a week.....where do I start?! Well, first I just have to let you all know that I was UNLIKE myself this week and actually did not take many pictures! So, I will try not to bore you with too many stories!
As I think I mentioned before, the Landis/Hoover family had a new cottage built this year! The one that has been there FOREVER, was in pretty bad shape and we knew that if Great-Grandma Hoover (99 years old) was ever going to be able to stay out there again, then it needed fixed. Here are a couple pics of the old cottage (Summer 2007) and then a couple of the new cottage when I was home in May.

The front (facing Bethel)****The WHOLE thing!

I guess I didn't take one of the back. Have a bunch of the inside...but, who wants to see those!

NEW COTTAGE..................MAY 2008

The back--facing the road***The new FRONT door--facing Bethel

*****WHERE WE STAYED........FAMILY CAMP 2008*****

The front (Facing Bethel)****The back--perfect place for G-ma to park!

The side of the front----between us and Rumseys

Trying to get grass in there! We even had to lay sod because there was so much mud! Yes, everyone made fun of us......"WHO lays sod at FAIRMOUNT CAMP?!!" HAHA

The ORIGINAL signs for the front! We need to make a new one that says "HOOVER/LANDIS/TROPF"

FAMILY CAMP----HERE I COME!!!

2008-07-19T14:41:00.000-07:00

Hello friends..........just wanted to let you all know that I'm not sure how much I'll be on here this week......as I'm headed to one of my MOST FAVORITE places in the WHOLE WIDE WORLD.....Fairmount Camp! I am headed to stay at Natachia (my cousin) and Jon's in Tennessee tonight......then heading on up to camp tomorrow afternoon!

I guess that I'm particularly excited for camp this year because for the first time in years.......my Grandma Landis and Great-Grandma Hoover are staying out there with me! I am looking forward to this special time with them and playing lots of games! We also built a new cottage this year. The old one.....well, was getting OLD! This is my 26th year of Family Camp and I look forward to reminiscing over my many years of camp with old friends! I will try to share updates through the week.....but not sure if its possible!

To my wonderful husband.........It means so much to me that you allow/support me going to Family Camp EVERY year! You know how special camp is to me, but I will miss you tons! I pray you have a good week and that they don't work you too hard at the Academy! I LOVE YOU!

Last Weekend

2008-07-16T18:14:00.000-07:00

So, I thought I'd share what all we did last weekend........nothing too exciting......but, have some pictures to share!

Friday night, we went out to a WONDERFUL Mexican Restaurant called Chona's, with a few of Jay's friends from the Fire Academy. He spends EVERY day with these guys so we thought it was time for me to meet them! We had a great time with lots of laughs!

On Saturday, we slept in.......Jay's favorite thing to do on Saturdays because he is so exhausted from the week! We then went to the pool and while I floated in the pool, Jay studied for his next test!

We came home, got cleaned up, and on our way to dinner........stopped at the carwash!
Every time I go through this kind of carwash, I have flashbacks of my childhood! I would be SO SCARED when I knew my mom was pulling into "THE Carwash". If I was in the front seat, I would instantly put my face in my mom's lap.........just knowing these MONSTERS were going to come through the windows and doors and EAT ME! I hated it so much.......and mom would usually laugh! I guess I have finally grown out of this stage, but it was so tempting to put my face in Jay's lap and act like a kid again!

After the carwash, we headed to dinner at Carrabba's! YUMMY! I had a delicious dish......that I know doesn't look so delicious.....but was called Pasta Weesie (I think)! It was penne pasta with a butter alfredo sauce....with mushrooms, scallops, and shrimp! Can I just say AMAZING! This is why I should be at the gym all week!

After dinner, we headed to Jay's FAVORITE store.....the PGA Tour Superstore! When we pulled up........he noticed them having an outdoor tent sale......Oh dear.......leave the credit card in the CAR! He was sooooo excited! Yes, I decided to be a DORK and act like I was hitting this ENORMOUS golf ball! What is Jay going to do with me?!!! Just love me, I guess!

Needless to say, we had a great weekend. It's so fun when we can both enjoy a few of our favorite things together!

PRAY FOR MY MOM!!!

2008-07-15T17:12:00.000-07:00

So, many of you know my mom is living out her calling by doing mission work! She has been working part-time for World Gospel Mission for a few months and is truly enjoying it. Today.....she left Indy....came through Atlanta.......is heading to Buenos Aires......then to somewhere else.......then finally to Paraguay!!! I know....I know......WHO goes to Paraguay? Is that really a country? Well, apparently it is because she is on her way!

Jay and I went over to the Atlanta Airport to eat dinner with mom while she had a layover. We laughed about how if dad was still here......he'd say...."Have a great trip. I'll be here when you get home"!!! If any of you knew my dad very well, you knew he was a HOME BODY.........like father, like daughter! I mean, he enjoyed to travel and all.....but lets keep it in the USA!!!
I'm so glad my mom is enjoying her job, and although I get emotional and nervous EVERY time she goes out of the country, I know she's doing what God wants her to do and she loves it!
Have a SAFE trip, mom! I love you more than you know!

If you look really close, you'll see Buenos Aires at the very top!

Everytime I go to an airport, I realize how much I like them! I mean just watching the planes go in and out, watching people cry and laugh, and just soaking up the special creatures God made! Can any of you appreciate the FUN of an airport?!!!

Grandpa Landis

2008-07-14T12:51:00.001-07:00

Hey everyone......Sorry I haven't written in the past few days. I have much to update you all on.....but wanted to let you know that you can see a beautiful article about my Grandpa Landis in the Chronicle Tribune today.

You should be able to click on this link:

http://www.chronicletribune.com/articles/2008/07/14/news/doc487ac539383b1297367725.txt

If not, go to http://www.chronicletribune.com/ and you will see an article called "Church honors former pastor". As many of you know, my grandpa played the trumpet in the Mississinewa Valley Band. They did a concert at Brookhaven lastnight to remember Grandpa and to raise money for the Eldine D. Landis Memorial Fund. This fund will be used to buy a new sign for the church......he would love it! This article brought tears to my eyes.......I know how special he is to me and my family......but to know that so many others care and still remember him.....means a lot! Thank you to the Mississinewa Valley Band and all of you who were there. Wish I could have been there!

The Reception.......

2008-07-08T17:18:00.000-07:00

Jay and Erika being silly-------------I love this guy!

Natachia and Jon had their reception at an old "Barn" that was beautifully decorated and had so much character. The "Barn" sits among a beautiful nursery of flowers and plants and a pond. They had wonderful food, fun music and dancing, delicious cake, and sparklers to top it all off!

(I don't have many pictures......too busy having fun!)

**And look who caught the garter and bouquet**

**They were fighting for them**

SOOOOO CUTE!

Natachia and Jon are now enjoying their honeymoon in California and Vegas! Congratulations to you and best of luck! We love you!

CONGRATULATIONS, Jon and Natachia!

2008-07-08T10:03:00.000-07:00

Natachia waking up------------Beautiful Hair......Thanks, Jennifer!

Getting Dressed--------Ready to go see her Groom!

The sisters------I mean COUSINS!
Everyone in Tennessee thought we were sisters and so much alike!

The Big day finally arrived! Saturday morning, we headed to the church by 9 to get ready! A wonderful lady from Natachia's church brought us a delicious breakfast to eat while doing our hair and make-up. Once we got ready, Natachia and Jon saw eachother in the sanctuary.........then we headed out to "The Barn" for pictures. The Barn is where the reception was held and Natachia wanted to get some pictures outside......it was BEAUTIFUL! Here are a few from out there..........

The beautiful flower girls--------The GORGEOUS bride!

The entire party-------------The guys with Natachia

We then headed back to the church for lunch and more pictures! Then, it was time for the ceremony! It was beautiful! Matt and Andrew were ushers and candle lighters. Natachia had a tape play of Grandma and Grandpa Landis playing "Amazing Grace" for her communion. (Grandma was playing the piano and Grandpa playing his trumpet.) While this played, they had two pictures up on the screens of Grandm and Grandpa together. It was such a neat tribute to Grandpa!

Grams and I waiting during pictures--------My wonderful family!

Jay and I before the ceremony-------Jon and Natachia during picture time

My bouquet.....GORGEOUS!-------The entire party before the ceremony

Natachia & Grams at the piano during pictures------Matt & Andrew lighting candles

Dave walking Teresa down the aisle-------Me getting Jon's ring

Teresa walking Natachia down the aisle-------Mr. & Mrs. Jon Souders!

The delicious cake---------Jay and I

Before the ceremony, Natachia received a card and 2 roses from "Gramps and Uncle Tim". It was emotional, but special! She also had the honor of wearing Grandma Landis' garter. These are all in this picture........

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JAY------Happy 4th of July

2008-07-08T09:49:00.000-07:00

Uncle Mason and I---------Andrew and Ringbearer Braden

After rehearsal we all headed back to Natachia's house and hung out and then Jon's friends let off fireworks in the backyard! It was a great time visiting with family and friends and celebrating the 4th of July!

Family watching Andrew's camp video-------Aunt Donna, Grams, and I

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JAY! Yes, Jay's birthday is the 4th of July! He turned the BIG 25!!! We sang Happy Birthday, I gave him his present, and he got cards and money from family! Sorry, Jay......this day and weekend is NOT about you!!! HAHA (All about the bride!)

Natachia and Braden going down to watch fireworks
Jay playing with Braden

Friday....More Preparation and Rehearsal....

2008-07-08T09:18:00.001-07:00

On Friday, we got up and began getting all of the "last minute" things together. Stephanie and Erika helped cut up scrapbook paper so that guests could sign them and Natachia can make a scrapbook of her wedding day! My mom worked on the pillow because Natachia wanted Green and Pink ribbon to add color. I helped Natachia pack for her honeymoon, get Thank You's written, and much more that I can't even remember!

After a day of random jobs we headed to the church for the rehearsal. My mom was the wedding coordinator and did a great job of keeping everyone in line! The rehearsal went well and the Souders family provided us with a wonderful dinner catered by Famous Dave's Barbeque! All of these pictures were taken at rehearsal.......

Aunt Teresa walking Natachia down the aisle---Ringbearer and flower girls

Andrew and I----Stephanie and Erika

Grams and Matt-----Uncle Dave(Teresa's hubby) and his son, Jon

Me holding the bride's bouque---Kaley and Natachia

Natachia and Aunt T----Mom--The Coordinator!

Andrew and I being silly-----Me and my sis!

Mom is so proud of us!

The Wedding is coming....The Wedding is coming!

2008-07-08T08:55:00.000-07:00

This past Saturday, I had the honor of being my cousin's Matron of Honor as she married the love of her life, Jon! It was a BEAUTIFUL and fun-filled weekend! It all started on Wednesday night when I went to the Atlanta airport to pick up Erika (Andrew's girlfriend), who flew in from Florida! She stayed the night at our house on Wednesday night, then she and I got up Thursday and drove to Tennessee!

On our way, we picked up Jon's wedding ring in Chattanooga and grab a LARGE amount of food from Chili's to snack on while getting our pedicures! We were able to spend the day at an amazing Medical Spa, where we each got pedicures and finished putting all of the wedding programs together.

After the spa, we headed back to Natachia's house to get ready for the lingerie shower hosted by Jon's sisters, Candy and Carissa. It was a GREAT time filled with many laughs and wonderful & exciting gifts!

CAMPING----CAMPING----CAMPING

2008-07-01T18:45:00.000-07:00

Finally I am able to share with you the wonderful weekend of camping! Saturday morning Jay and I got up, packed up the truck, and headed to Augusta! We met up with Lance & April and Steven & Rebecca at Wildwood.....on Clarks Hill Lake. We started by setting up the tents......(Thank you, Billy and Ann for letting us borrow them!).......

Ohhhh....the tents!

Take a look at the picture of Lance and April trying to get out of the tent! When Billy said he had a 3 person tent that "really only fits 2"........he wasn't joking! Lance and April are definitly the smallest couple out of us 3 couples.....so, I guess I thought they would fit fine......they managed to fit a Full size air-mattress in the tent and April lasted all night......while Lance only lasted an hour! He ended up sleeping in the mini-van and had it running for 2 hours with the A/C running! (Half tank to a 1/4 tank!)

The Shugs(Steven and Rebecca) and Bob & Thomas (Jay and I) slept in the bigger tent. Needless to say, I coughed, sneezed, and blowed my nose all night!

Sunday morning we got up around 8:30........and started making pancakes and sausage. Lance really wanted to go see the dam.....so, he and April took off on the jet ski.......and eventually came back an hour and a half later..........after we sent Jay to look for them! I won't go in to details for April's sake......lets just say......Clarks Hill Lake is HUGE and the sense of direction gets lost while in the middle of a huge lake! Thankfully, they made it back safely!

We spent a lot of time out on the water........jet skiing......and trying to wakeboard! All of us were successful on the wakeboard......after many, many tries and a lot of lake water down the tubes! As Lance would say, "This lake water isn't that bad"!

Jay and Steven had an exciting adventure on Saturday. They were able to help a guy who had flipped off the back of a jet ski and was basically knocked out, in the water. They jumped on their jet skiis and headed over to help. They got him out of the water and on to a boat so he could be taken to shore. The guy was airlifted to MCG where he had a brain skull fracture. Thankfully he is doing well and Steven was able to visit him at MCG, where Steven is an RN! I was so proud of my husband and Steven for helping this young man and responding quickly.

Saturday night we had a wonderful evening with a campfire, smores, and pudgie pies!

Here are a few more pictures from the trip!

2008-06-30T18:59:00.000-07:00

Not sure what is going on........but this won't let me post a picture. So, gonna have to wait until tomorrow to see pictures of camping! Hopefully it will work then! Did any of you watch Bachelorette? SO CRAZY! She has to choose Jason.....he seems like a great guy.....and easy on the eyes!

So Sorry.......

2008-06-29T17:42:00.001-07:00

Okay, so I said I was going to post our camping weekend when we got back today. However, I am still feeling soooooo yucky. Threw up this morning.....been coughing, sneezing, and blowing my nose 24/7! Just to nip any prego rumors in the butt.......Jay is now coughing, sneezing, and blowing his nose! So, I'll hopefully feel better tomorrow and get some pictures up for you! We had a great time.......lots of laughs!

P.S. There is a rainbow outside and it's awesome! Pictures tomorrow!

Going Camping.......

2008-06-27T17:46:00.000-07:00

Okay, so I can't wait to tell you all about our weekend camping! We are leaving first thing in the morning to head to Augusta where we're going to camp on Clarks Hill Lake! We have a spot reserved on the water, just three spots from the ramp (to put our jet skis in!)........a PERFECT place for our two tents! We are meeting up with our wonderful friends from Augusta! I can't wait to share pictures with you on Sunday! I have been soooooo excited for this camping trip......reminding me of when I was little and going camping with my family! I can't wait to make pudgie pies and smores! Okay.....so I'm getting so excited thinking about it all! It's early now, but I don't feel good......so, i'm heading to bed! Be back Sunday!

More Elliana......She is Beautiful!

2008-06-26T08:22:00.000-07:00

This whole week, Heather and I have been going over to visit Billy, Ann, and Elliana.....so, we have taken a lot of pictures! Lastnight, I cooked up some tacos and cheese dip and took it over there while we all enjoyed dinner and Elliana! Many of you may notice that when Fireman Jay holds such a little baby.....you can tell we don't have children yet! It cracks me up! Elliana continues to get more beautiful each day.

There's a horse living in my house!

2008-06-23T13:18:00.000-07:00

Okay......so, not really a HORSE.....but a really big dog! My dear friend, Heather Seaman, is here for a few days while on her way from West Palm Beach, FL to Colorado! (She is really here to see the precious Elliana Clark!) But, I get the honor of hosting her and her LARGE dog, Haley! Today we went to the park to let Haley go on a long walk and jump in the water! Okay....so, if you know me.....you know I'm scared of everything! Well, there were some prisoners working in the park and I wasn't even scared because Haley is so big and she could eat them all! But, she is the most sweet dog! Here she is:

Jay's Second Love..........GOLF

2008-06-21T16:54:00.001-07:00

Just so you know.......I am his FIRST LOVE! But, Golf is definitly his second. So, we decided to go to one of the local golf courses......Trophy Club......to hit a few balls on the range and practice putting. This was the first time, unfortunately, this season that we have been out to the course together. While living in Augusta, we were members of a course and LOVED going out there in the evenings to play or just hit around on the range. But, since moving, me finishing up school, and Jay still in fireman training.......it hasn't happened. So, it was nice to be out together on the links again! Enjoy a few pictures!

Do I have anything better to do? NOPE!!!

2008-06-21T13:32:00.001-07:00

Okay.........so, as most of you know....I'm still looking for a job! Therefore, my days consist of looking for jobs, going to the gym, looking for jobs, going to the pool, and looking for jobs! If you know me, you know I care a LITTLE about my tan and I LOVE the sun! So, I just thought I'd share a picture of where I spent my afternoon yesterday! No, it's not MINE.....it's the neighborhood pool......but I "hold it down" on a regular basis!

Please come down and visit me......we'll go to the pool!

Elliana Richelle Clark-----A True Blessing

2008-06-18T15:05:00.001-07:00

I am pleased to let you all know that Ann and Billy are finally the proud parents of Elliana Richelle Clark. She was born lastnight, June 17th, at 9:26 p.m. She weighed in at 8lbs 14.5 oz and 21.5 inches long. She is absolutely BEAUTIFUL and a true blessing and gift from God. Ann is doing great......after a LONG night! (For those of you who are wondering WHO Ann and Billy are: Ann went to high school with Jay and I and now lives in the same county as we do, here in GA! She is a dear friend! Billy is her wonderful husband who is a fireman here in Gwinnett County and helped get Jay in to the fire dept! What a blessing!) So, I went up to the hospital this afternoon to see this precious baby. I got to thinking how refreshing it is to see a NEWBORN baby......a NEW life......a gift from God......after realizing how much I think about death! I thank God for new life! Congratulations, Billy and Ann! We love you guys!

GOOOOO BUCKEYES!

2008-06-18T07:57:00.001-07:00

Okay.....lets set the record straight....since there are some issues out in Blogland! Now, don't hold anything against Jay, but he has totally converted me to be an OHIO STATE fan. And once you become one.......you are one for LIFE! So, therefore......in choosing to marry Jay....I have also chosen to become a BUCKEYE! JoEllen....I know you understand this theology! HA I apologize for any hurt feelings! We do still love the Colts and watch them......but it's nothing like wearing a #33 James Laurinaitis jersey, some sunglasses that say OHIO, and eating and drinking with OSU plates and cups!

Why not try to Blog, too??!!

2008-06-17T20:03:00.000-07:00

Hey everyone! Okay........so, I figured since I already get on Facebook and My Space......I might as well try a blog, too! This is what happens when God is teaching you patience in trying to get a job! Most of you know me......and if you know me.....you know I have a lot to share about my thoughts and experiences! I want this blog to be an opportunity for me to share what is going on in our lives, as well as, the many things God continues to teach me and the ways He continues to redeem my pain of loss. So, please join in on this journey with me!